I suggest that you give her a weekly maintenance spanking along with corner time until you are certain that this infraction will never happen again. I do not advise you to use them until the skin breaks, but I suggest that you also add a stern lecture and corner time both before and after the spanking is given. Your wife needs to learn to be more responsible, so this does not happen again.Įither the cane or paddle is a good implement to use for this infraction. I know your wife is sorry for what she did, but as HoH, she needs and expects you to carry out this punishment, so don’t be tempted to be lenient because of her submission and remorse. Your wife’s infraction is severe and could have led to a tragedy. Is a little skin breakage acceptable? I know it can happen as long as it is on the surface. I do have a shiny thick black school paddle that I think could be perfect for her transgression, but again I am nervous about hurting her. I saw your article on the cane and that would be perfect, but I am too nervous about using one without having experience. I don’t want to hurt her but I need to get through to her. During the time in, parents are encouraged to empathize with the child’s feelings and often just quiet connection is all. As I say a red alert, which requires a barn burner spanking. The Positive parenting tool called time IN or positive time out is when a child that is having a difficult moment is kindly invited to sit somewhere, near by a care giver to express their feelings and eventually cool down. She was totally negligent and it is the first time I am having to spank her for negligence. My wife knows she has something coming her way and has been very sorry and submissive. Thank goodness she is fine, but it was horrible in the moment. Our daughter got into some laundry pods and had to be rushed to the hospital. We have a 2 year old and have been married for 4 years. My wife was negligent, how should I discipline her? Question:
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